Divorce is like a hockey game.

  • 2nd December 2025

What the Puck A few months ago, I spent the weekend with my dearest friend celebrating her birthday. For the record, she is happily married and not intending to be divorced. As part of the celebrations, we were lucky enough to get tickets to watch a very boisterous ice hockey game. Before buying the tickets, […]

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Who gets to keep the family pet in a divorce? Should you get a pet-nup?

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Imagine yourself in this scenario, you have been married for fifteen years and your marriage is ending. You have decided to separate from your spouse. Overall, it hasn’t been a bad marriage, the first eight years were very happy. The last few years were a bit ropey, and your soon to be ex has admitted […]

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Spending time with your child.

  • 1st September 2024

Tom I want to introduce you to Tom and Lara. I met them when they had been dating for a year. Tom had survived a difficult divorce with a spouse who (in his opinion) hadn’t had a nice word to say about him in years. He had endured the pain and had managed to forge […]

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After a marriage ends, when is it too soon to date again? How do you prevent being in a rebound relationship? I have checked on the internet, it’s official – My name is Jo, and I am a reboundee! My husband and I started dating soon after his marriage ended. He hadn’t wanted his marriage […]

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Are you on the verge of abandoning your family?

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The situation. Sam first made contact a year after he separated from his wife (Lou). He wanted specific help. He wanted to take his two girls (ages 9 and 11 years) on a foreign holiday. This was to be his first solo / single parent holiday with the girls, and he was slightly nervous and […]

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How to stay organised and prepared after your marriage ends. How to create a comfortable home.

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The situation. I was asked the above question by a 38-year-old dad from London. Ian (well I am calling him Ian for the sake of this article), separated two years ago from his wife of fourteen years. They have two small girls ages 6- and 8-year-old respectively. His divorce has been finalised for over a […]

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